I like to think Rufus on Fire is the go-to site for Bobcats news and community. But even though I may think that chicken is the best food ever and eat it every day, it's good to have variety in the diet.
Beyond the various large web sites' content, there are several dedicated sites I have in my RSS reader. I've put most of these links in the sidebar, too.
Bobcats Baseline -- I envy the unfettered fandom displayed by Bobcats Baseline. Whereas I tend to skew toward the analytical, BB brings fandom and injects analysis later. Plus, they do great graphic work.
Queen City Hoops -- Brett runs the granddaddy of Charlotte Bobcats blogs, and now it's a part of the ESPN TrueHoop network. Much more than anyone else, QCH rocks the stats tables and dives into numbers.
Bobcats Planet -- I tend to stick to the BP blog, but they also host an active message board. If you're looking, specifically, for message board interaction with fellow Bobcats fans, Bobcats Planet is the place to go.
I'm sure there are other places that cover the Bobcats. Where else do you read? If you run a Bobcats site, feel free to post your link in the comments to this post.